As much as we try to avoid it. Take our seasons for example, change is inevitable. We may not approve of some changes, but the strength of a person comes when you are able to adapt to change. I had to learn this in my 20s. Whenever I had to relocate for a job or school I had to adapt to my new surroundings. Even though our country is currently in a state of shock over the recent Presidential election…
Every relationship has taught me something. Work relationship, romantic relationship, business relationship, and the list goes on. I’ve experienced some bitter departures, and some that ended quite amicably. Bottom line relationships can end. Relationships can also blossom into something beautiful. When I took this photo on Valentine’s Day 2016 I reflected on the past relationships that have come, stayed, and disappeared from my life. I can’t regret any past relationship because they have shaped me in some way. I know…
Legacy. Let’s think about the weight that the word carries. I know my parents and grandparents would always mention their legacy. It was probably their daily goal to establish a legacy for their family. I mean honestly when you’re gone, your family still has your legacy to reflect on. After unpacking some of my dad’s things, my grandfather’s items were in there as well. My grandfather was the first black Justice of the Peace of Berrien County in Michigan. I…
I’m #SteeleThankful for my foundation. Becoming first generation college graduates was important to my parents, especially my father. The goal was that all three children obtained a college degree. Often times I believed it was forced upon us to go to college, but now that I’m older I understand the foundation that was instilled in us. It wasn’t about an education, it was also about the life experience. It was problem solving skills, friendships, relationships, and preparation for the real…
I’m #SteeleThankful for the ability to overcome FEAR. I was in a place of absolute fear about this time in 2014. I completed my 90 day probation at my job, and it seemed as though all hell had literally broke loose. I became extremely unhappy in my current position, and fear came over me. My fear was that I was going to be stuck in a position that hindered me from pursuing my dreams. Fear can keep you in a…
I can’t believe it’s Day 5 already, and if you search the #SteeleThankful tag on social media you will read some truly inspiring stories. When I decided to use the freestyle option every five days I wanted everyone that participated to put their own spin on what they are #SteeleThankful for. So, today I’m choosing SUPPORT. I’m still unpacking at my new crib, and I came across this letter. It was my acceptance letter into my graduate program. I remember…
I’m #SteeleThankful for Peace… There’s some things we can take for granted. When I moved away from my hometown I longed for a beach. Somewhere to go, and think by a large body of water. I didn’t take many trips to the beach when I was a child for fear of drowning because I didn’t know how to swim. I didn’t appreciate the calming waves until it wasn’t in my reach. Whenever I came home to visit this place it…
Joy. When I look at this photo I can’t help but get misty eyed. I attended a Montessori elementary school, so I had the same teacher for three years. This lady was one of them. When I was being bullied she protected me. She welcomed me into her home as a little girl along with some of my closest friends in order to soak up more knowledge after school. It’s been years since I ran into Mrs. Elwell. I was…
This photo reminds me of the level of strength that I discovered just two weeks ago. I experienced 2 firsts. 1. Visiting Providence, Rhode Island. 2. My first World Burns Congress. Let me tell you. I ventured to this unknown place with anxiety. I was weak, vulnerable, and overwhelmed. Then I heard something in my spirit say there is strength in numbers. There I was surrounded by individuals that had similar stories such as myself, and were owning who they…
I enjoy my freedom. The freedom to go and come as I please. It’s truly something that I cherish above a lot of things. What happens when your freedom is threatened? I allowed my mind to be attached to things because those things represented someone that was no longer around. This storage space was occupied for over 3 years with items that belonged to my father, and quite frankly it was hard to let go. Not anymore. Holding on to…